If one asks, you should be honest

Dating and sleeping with more than one guy

Personally I would never date people that live far away, whats the point that wont keep u warm at night. For men emotional bonding is separate from sex. Because, after all, this is all about you. You are not asking him to be exclusive, simply stating the facts.

Do what you are comfortable with. When you take your time before sleeping together, you give yourself a chance to get to know a man without your hormones oxcytocin kicking in and clouding your judgement. Most women start to bond after s. When I was dating and seeing multiple men simultaneously, it rarely lasted.

The chances of overlap are just far too great, and the consequences A. More often than not, women fall in love anyway and then have to deal with the fact that they are dating a casual man who is likely not interested in monogamous love.

For men emotional

Personally I chose to wait so I could feel more comfortable. Fully understanding this would save a lot of heartache. By that point, the field had narrowed to one guy I had been dated multiple times. Not to mention you start confusing facts. Another way to handle sleeping together is to wait until you discuss and achieve exclusivity.

They would have to be the one to move. If I ever met a guy like that, I would think he was the biggest pussy ever and never fuck him again.

So, the choice is up to you. Any of these approaches can work to help you not jump in the sack before you are ready mentally.

Personally I would

As for holding men off from sex I think that is very easy. But I find this really confusing because sometimes this means you end up having sex with multiple guys and more than one may end up wanting a commitment and you have to choose.